First Dates
190 questions across six different moods, plus a 30-card quick-fire round, for the kind of conversation that makes you actually want to meet them. Or be glad you didn't waste a Saturday night.
Open the app. The questions come to you: playful warm-ups, cheeky flirts, the real-talk that tells you what someone actually thinks, future-building wonders that surface what they want from life. You bring the curiosity. We'll bring the conversation.
How It Plays Out
No awkward silences. No script. Just better conversations than either of you would have stumbled into on your own.
We bring the questions
Easy openers first, deeper ones when you're ready. You never run out of things to ask, and you might surprise yourself with what comes up.
You both vote
After each answer, tap how it landed. The app quietly builds a real-time picture of where you click, and where the gaps are honest enough to notice.
It all adds up
Every session feeds your Growth Dashboard. Over time you spot the moods that light you up, the questions that always go somewhere, and the patterns you didn't know you had.
See it in action
Three steps to a conversation that actually goes somewhere.
1. Pick your vibe
Choose the mood (playful, deep, flirty, balanced mix) and where you are in the arc. The questions adapt.
2. Answer honestly, no peeking
Type what's true, not what you think they want to hear. Answers stay hidden until you've both shared.
3. Rate and reflect
Score how it landed and add a reflection note. Once you have both saved, you see each other's score. The Growth Dashboard builds a picture from these over time.
Six moods, one conversation
Mix and match. Start with a warm-up. Dip into flirty when you feel brave. End on something that actually matters. You're not stuck on a track.
Warm-Up
25 questions · easy openers
"What's a movie you can watch over and over again without getting bored?"
Fun
50 questions · for the gigglers
"What's your go-to karaoke song and why?"
Flirty
25 questions · with a glint in the eye
"What's your signature move when you're trying to be charming?"
Silly
25 questions · pure nonsense, secretly revealing
"If you were a kitchen appliance, which one would you be and why?"
Deep
50 questions · what they actually think
"What part of yourself are you still trying to understand?"
Architect
15 questions · openers, each with a note on the thinking behind it
"What would you want me to know about you that a dating profile could never capture?"
Talk, see each other, turn up the heat
The questions are the heart of it, but you can have the whole conversation live, see each other when you're ready, and (when you're properly a couple) add a bit of fire.
Voice Calls
FREEShare a six-character code instead of your number. Calls connect your two devices directly where the network allows, and through a Cloudflare relay where it does not. We do not record calls. One tap to disconnect, and once the session ends there is no way to ring you back.
The questions roll while you talk. Like having a brilliant host running your first call.
Video Calls
$7.99 AUD / 3 monthsWhen you're ready to put a face to the voice. Way better than another text exchange, and a long way short of committing to coffee. If the person who starts the session has the add-on, their partner can use it too for that session.
Connected the same way as voice calls. Still no phone numbers. A lower-stakes way to check the chemistry before you meet.
Spicy Mode
$4.99 AUD / 3 months90 thoughtful, direct questions about desire, fantasy and connection, for adults (18+). There are three heat levels (Warm, Hot, Scorching), and in a shared session both partners have to opt in before it switches on.
Built for established couples. In solo mode you can preview the questions, but they are made for two.
Voice is always free. Video and Spicy are optional add-ons. The core experience is complete without them.
See all pricing →When First Dates shines
It's not for one moment. It's quietly useful across the whole arc.
The pre-meet phone call
Matched with someone interesting? Do a 20-minute First Dates call before you commit to dinner. You'll know within minutes whether you actually want to put on real clothes.
The catch-up between dates
Share a session code, hop on a voice call (no phone numbers), and let the questions carry the evening. Better than another text exchange, and closer than "how was your day?" can get.
Couples who think they know each other
Five years in. Ten. Doesn't matter. First Dates keeps surfacing things you've never actually asked, or that the answer to has quietly changed.
Also works in person
Put the app on the table when you do meet up. Two phones, same restaurant. It'll pull you out of the "so what do you do?" loop in seconds.