Your Guide to Dive Deep Dating
Everything you need in one app: a Confidence Hub to build your foundations, Sparky (your AI dating guide), Interactive Experiences to discover compatibility, voice and video calls without sharing your number, a Growth Dashboard to track your journey, and optional add-ons when you're ready to go further.
Dating Confidence Hub
A structured journey through everything you need to date with confidence, from foundations and readiness through to red flag awareness and the science of a great first date. Work through them in order, or jump to what interests you.
Dating Foundations
Core principles for healthy, confident dating
Readiness Assessment
Discover where you are on your dating journey
Clarify Your Intentions
Understand what you truly want from dating
Red Flags Guide
Spot warning signs early, with an interactive quiz
Special Circumstances
Guidance for dating after divorce, with kids, and more
Perfect Date Science
Tips for planning memorable dates, with the studies named
Dating Landscape
Navigate modern dating with context and awareness
Confidence Building
Practical exercises to build genuine dating confidence
Plus ongoing resources:
Meet Sparky
Your personalised dating guide who remembers your goals, the people you're navigating, and the patterns that keep showing up. Available any time of day or night, and completely free to start (5 messages a day, forever).
Before a date
Talk through nerves, rehearse what you want to say, or ask Sparky to help you pick conversation topics. Walk in prepared, not rehearsed.
After a date
Debrief honestly. Sparky helps you separate signal from nerves and spot the patterns you keep repeating, so you can break them.
When you're overthinking
"Am I reading too much into this?" Probably. Sparky won't judge, and because it remembers your story, it can help you figure out what's anxiety and what's intuition.
Session summaries
After each chat, the app puts together a short summary: the themes that came up, the suggestions Sparky made, and a mood read based on the words you used. It is saved to your Growth Dashboard so you can track patterns over time.
Free: 5 messages/day, forever
Want longer sessions? Upgrade to 25 messages/day for $7.99 AUD / 3 months.
Sparky is an AI dating guide, not a therapist. It draws on this app's own learning library (attachment styles, trust, communication, emotional intelligence and attraction). What Sparky remembers is stored in Australia. To write each reply, your message is sent to Anthropic's Claude, and Anthropic's commercial terms bar it from training its models on what you send.
The Conversation Guide
Great questions are just the beginning. Our comprehensive guide teaches you how to turn any question into a conversation that creates real connection, not just an exchange of information.
What You'll Learn
- The Science of Conversation: how good conversation works, with the studies named
- Active Listening Techniques: full attention, reflective listening, emotional attunement
- The Art of Questions: open, follow-up, clarifying, feeling, and values questions
- Conversation Scenarios: tailored guidance for first dates, deeper connection, disagreements, and support
- Building Rapport: finding common ground, using their language, and appropriate mirroring
Core Principles
Curiosity Over Judgement
Approach each response with wonder, not evaluation
Listen to Understand
Set aside your thoughts and enter their perspective
Vulnerability Creates Connection
Someone has to go first. Let it be you
Presence Over Performance
People remember how you made them feel, not how smart you sounded
A comprehensive 15-20 minute read covering everything from the science of connection to practical techniques
Interactive Experiences
Conversations and games designed to help you understand each other better, discover compatibility, and build genuine connection. No sign-up required.
Dating Conversations
Question-based conversations tailored to where you are in your relationship
Dive Deep Dating
Light to MediumEarly Dating & Getting to Know Someone
Fun, light conversation starters designed for first dates and early connections. Break the ice, discover shared interests, and build rapport naturally.
Long Game
Medium to DeepEssential Conversations for Relationships
A structured compatibility assessment exploring values, communication styles, and life goals. Perfect for established couples ready to have the conversations that matter.
Games & Activities
Fun interactive games to play together, each on your own device, whether you're in the same room or miles apart
Games Hub
Couples
Eleven interactive games, from Two Truths & a Lie to Would You Rather. Play together on your own devices to discover surprises, spark laughter, and learn about each other without the pressure of deep conversation.
36 Questions Journey
ProgressiveBased on a 1997 study by Arthur Aron and colleagues. A guided journey through three sets of increasingly personal questions, designed to build closeness between strangers.
How to Play
Use conversation questions solo to prepare for dates, or play together for the full experience. Games are designed for two, each person on their own device.
Solo Reflection
Explore conversation questions at your own pace, perfect for preparing before a date or personal reflection
- 1 Enter your name on the landing page
- 2 Choose First Dates or Long Game questions
- 3 Reflect on each question at your own pace
Together (Same Room)
Play games and explore questions sitting side by side, each on your own device
- 1 One person starts a game or session and gets a code
- 2 Your partner joins on their own phone or device
- 3 Both see the same questions: take turns, compare answers, and discover surprises
Together (Remote)
Connect with your partner from anywhere: same experience, different locations
- 1 Share your session code or link via text, email, or video call
- 2 Both see the same questions and games in real time
- 3 Pair it with a phone or video call for the best experience
Voice & Video Calls
Talk to someone you've matched with without sharing your phone number, socials, or any personal contact details. Share a 6-character session code and start talking. Calls are available in First Dates sessions and in the games.
Voice calls: free
Calls connect your two devices directly where the network allows, and through a Cloudflare relay where it does not. We do not record calls. Share a code, start talking, and disconnect with one tap when you're done. Once the session ends, the other person has no way to ring you back.
Video calls: $7.99 add-on
See each other before you meet up. If the person who starts the session has the add-on, their partner can use it too for that session. A much safer way to check chemistry before committing to a coffee.
How it works
Start a session and get your 6-character code
Share the code and they join on their own device
Talk through guided questions together, and add video when ready
Add-Ons: Pay Only for What You Want
The core app is completely free. These optional add-ons help cover our costs and unlock extra features. Each one gives 3 months of access. Prices are in Australian dollars (AUD).
Video Calls
$7.99
3 months · AUD
Sparky Coaching
$7.99
25 msgs/day · 3 months
Spicy Mode
$4.99
90 intimate questions · 3 months
SAVE $2.99
Date Night Bundle
Video + Spicy
$9.99
BEST VALUE · SAVE $6.98
Dive Deep Dating Complete
Video + Coaching + Spicy
$13.99
Spicy Mode: 90 thoughtful but direct questions about desire, fantasy, and connection. Adults only (18+). Designed for established couples. In a shared session, both partners must consent before it switches on.
Growth Dashboard
Your dating activity in one place. What you do in the app feeds into a dashboard built from your own activity and ratings, so you can track progress and look back at how your dating has been going, not only how it feels in the moment.
Dating Journal
Quick mood check-ins any time, not just after sessions. Track your dating energy (1-5), tag entries (post-date, rejection, breakthrough, spark), and add notes. See how your enthusiasm rises and falls over time.
Dating Energy Timeline
A visual chart of your mood and energy over time, pulling from journal entries, session vibes, and Sparky moods. Spot trends, streaks, and dips at a glance.
Coaching Insights
What themes keep coming up in your Sparky sessions? What has Sparky suggested? Your Sparky summaries are aggregated here so patterns become visible.
Dating App Tracker
Rate and review the dating platforms you're using. Pros, cons, match quality ratings. Invaluable if you take a break and come back later, because you'll know exactly what worked.
Monthly Summary
At-a-glance view of this month: sessions, journal entries, Sparky chats, average energy, top tags, and how it compares to last month. Instant clarity.
Month in Review
A personalised monthly debrief that synthesises everything (your moods, themes, Sparky patterns, and dating app activity) into a narrative with one focussed suggestion for next month. (Coaching add-on)
Plus: session trends, badges, conversation areas, partner cards built from your own ratings, a reflection journal, and more. When you are signed in, your journal, reflections, tracked apps and Sparky summaries are also saved to your account at no cost.
Tips for Great Conversations
Start Light
Begin with warm-up questions before diving into deeper topics.
Take Breaks
Serious conversations can be draining. Use the games for fun breaks.
Be Honest
The value comes from authentic answers, not impressive ones.
No Judgement
Create a safe space where both people can be vulnerable.
Have Fun
These are conversation catalysts, not interrogations!
Ready to Start?
Jump straight into an interactive experience, read the Conversation Guide first, or start with the Confidence Hub to build your foundations.