✨ Meet Sparky

Your dating wingmate

Sparky is an AI guide: the friend who never gets tired of your overthinking and usually has something useful to say. Stuck on a text? Awkward second-date silence? Trying to decode what they actually meant? Sparky is on it.

Five free messages a day, every day, no account required. Sparky lives inside the Confidence Hub and pops up wherever you need a hand.

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🔒 Voice & Video

Talk for hours. Never share your phone number.

You meet someone on an app. You want to actually talk before meeting up, but you do not want them having your number if it does not work out. We get it.

Share a six-character code instead. They join, you talk, and the code only works for that session: it stops when you end the session, and expires after four hours either way. No number swap, no awkward "can you delete my contact?" later. Voice is free. Video is an optional add-on for when you are ready to see each other.

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Voice: free
Code-based, up to four hours a session
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Video: optional
Add when you are ready
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No number shared
Ever, by anyone
Want it to remember you?

Your Growth Dashboard, on every device

Everything above works without an account. But if you want Sparky to remember your goals next week, your journal to follow you to your laptop, and your dating journey to actually add up over time, that is what an account is for.

Your dashboard, journal, and history sync to every device
Sparky remembers your goals and patterns over time
Track your dating energy week by week
Save sessions, revisit answers, build a real record
Monthly summaries showing how far you have come
One sign-in across all DDD apps
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Dive Deep Dialogues

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If you already have a Dive Deep Dialogues account, sign in with it here: same login, no separate account needed. Your journal, reflections and finished sessions are then saved to that account, so they open on any device you sign in on.

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Your privacy, properly

Coaching chats, journal entries and reflections are private to your account. We do not sell your data or use it for advertising. Sparky's replies are written by Anthropic's Claude, so your messages are sent to Anthropic for that; by default Anthropic does not use them to train its models. The servers that handle Sparky's conversations run in Google Cloud's Australian region.

Export or delete everything any time, from your Growth Dashboard.

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Off you go.

Pick something fun, have a play, see what fits. We will be here when you want it to remember you.